February 18, 2020

Mentoring Arrangement Purpose and Reason, Requires Clarification

by Stephen Hobbs in wellth movement  | 0 Comments

Clarify your purpose of the/your reason for the mentoring arrangement from the outset 

Clarify means "make a statement or situation less confused"
Therefore, to clarify - it's important to 

(a) define the terms and concepts within the statement or situation; and more importantly, 

(b) agree on those terms and concepts ... 

What follows next is to "make the map" 

Mentoring Arrangement is the structural preparations for the situation (mentoring) and then, the actions-processes of mentoring that take place in the situation ... 

with the mentor taking the lead at first. 

Eventually the mentoring arrangement is a shared accountability

Purpose of the mentoring arrangement ...

Purpose feels more soulful and spirtual in nature; more about identifying and creating something from the inside out
Suggest the mentor holds the purpose - until shared!

Reason for the mentoring arrangement ... 
Reason summarizes the mental and physical requirements of the arrangement; more about logical judgments and justification from the outside in  
Suggest the mentee holds the reason  - until shared!

from the outset ... once you know a mentoring arrangement is unfolding -> between the mentor and the mentee
It's important - that together - you take a proactive approach to clarify the shared purpose and reason for the mentoring arrangement ...

In doing so, you step forward individually and together in ways that benefit each of you and the mentoring arrangement together 

Look at #2 in the next post

33 Mentoring Considerations in the Form of Action_Outcome Statements
  1. Clarify your purpose of/your reason for the mentoring arrangement from the outset
  2. Investigate together what each person seeks to learn, starting with the mentee
  3. Listen to each other’s words and watch each other’s actions to clarify what each person seeks/confirms from the connection
  4. Strengthen your trust in the mentoring relationship from start to finish 
  5. Know trust is shared in a relationship where mutual recognition thrives
  6. Grow the mentoring relationship from the perspective of know thyself 
  7. Convey delight in supporting each other’s mindset development via prove the success and improve the growth
  8. Celebrate the willingness to expand the concepts and improve the practices of your expertise
  9. Appreciate the time and effort necessary to ensure an extraordinary mentoring arrangement
  10. Utilize problem inquiry and appreciative inquiry to guide your conversations
  11. Remain open to the decision-making process instead of narrowing to an impulsive response
  12. Explore the various angles of suggested responses in favor of co-creating wise practices
  13. Interpret the requirements and requests each of you has during your time together 
  14. Recognize truthfulness develops from access to adequate or total information that both parties can use to assist each other
  15. Formulate inquiries of each other in action-based statements that allow for measurement
  16. Organize the boundary of your topic dialogue 
  17. Prioritize the issues open for review and reinvention without initial direction
  18. Frame the informal and incidental learning activities thought useful to stimulate experience-based learning
  19. Outline your realistic outcomes 
  20. Establish intentions for the conversation and ensuing results
  21. Share stories and directives that lead to crafting goals to guide the mentoring arrangement
  22. Collaborate in the fulfillment of each other’s commitments
  23. Demonstrate assertiveness and cooperation in all interactions
  24. Keep promises to improve, focus, and strengthen the mentoring arrangement during and in-between meetings
  25. Navigate experiences through learning for action
  26. Customize experiences to highlight the learning objective
  27. Customize activities to formulate the mentee’s questions and the mentor’s answers
  28. Determine which actions are appropriate to move learning forward, according to the joint decisions
  29. Model honesty and fairness in nurturing a caring relationship 
  30. Communicate ways that foster conversations
  31. Encourage diversity without judgment
  32. Further what each person brings to the mentoring arrangement
  33. Commit to self-concept awareness while engaged with another

Over the weeks that follow, I'll add some thoughts to each action_outcome statement ...

And I would enjoy your thoughts as well ... Your edits (add, alter, delete) are appreciated.

You are invited to become involved ... and so - - - - your comments are appreciated below.

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WELLth Movement guides inspired practitioners to become natural educators who deliver extraordinary experiences with their community of significance using eco-ethical architecture for movement and profitability.

Inspired Practitioners
_ Managers and Leaders in organizations of all types, sizes, and locations
_ Parents & Grandparents looking to involve their children/grandchildren with nature

Natural Educators​
_ Facilitative Mentors
_ Navigators & Weavers

_ Instructive Coaches 

Extraordinary Experiences
_ Employees & Customers
_ Children and Grandchildren

Community of Significance
_ Elevate groups and teams (departments/units) to communities of significance
_ Involve family and friends in nature-based activities to benefit of all & trees

Eco-Ethical Architexture
_ use of Ecological Literacy
_ use of Ethical Decision-Making
_ use of language that evolves love and compassion in being for the world

Movement - fit of what you do in the physical - social movement before you 
Profitability - the type of ways you benefit from the work and associated movement


Dr. Stephen Hobbs

Writer - Walk with Nature as My Educator
- Share the Legacy I Intend to Live

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